Every once in a while, not saying ALWAYS (actually I am), there comes a point where you question. Who is this person again? Why did I marry them instead of that other person? How did I get here? And next thing you know, you have that old Talking Heads song going around in your brain. It happens. It's normal. If you didn't question your circumstances on a regular basis, you wouldn't be alive. This is how we grow. We question, we judge, we change based on those judgements and we GROW. We become better. Our circumstances become better. Because we were brave enough to question our current situation. Question your choices. It will be okay.
Usually (and hopefully) we end up reinforcing the fact that we made a good initial decision and it just needs a little tweaking or a new perspective. Occasionally, and hopefully rarely, we sadly discover the decisions we made were not healthy for us long term. Either way, the bottom line is, we examine, we take inventory, we discover what's still good and we get rid of (or get over) what is no longer good and is creating toxic situations in our lives.
Couples coaches can help you through those questions, those situations and help you make better choices for you and your significant other going forward. A good couples coach will help you take an objective, non-judgemental look at where you both are, what you want for your future and what needs to be done to get there. CRC Life Coach has ICF trained coaches that have been through it and have the tools and the experience to help you get through it for yourself.
Contact CRC Life Coach today to set up a free, no obligation appointment to discuss what you are going through and to see how we can help you both get through it.